So, if you look different, people are going to stare at you, right? Matt has been stared at throughout Asia as well as some of the other volunteers. I was not expecting to be stared at in Vietnam, I mean, I blend.
Now, so I might not look Vietnamese, although I was mistaken, but I do look a little more native than the white guy I travel around with. Sometimes I like to walk behind Matt to watch the people's expressions/gestures after he walks past. In Vietnam though I started to notice that, sure Matt was getting his fair share of stares, but so was I. I was perhaps getting even more.
This whole staring business is fairly new to me, as I have mostly traveled in Asia, so it was a little weird to me. Why are you looking at me? Do I have something on my face (check face, try to be discrete), do I have something in my hair? (check hair, try to be more discrete), do I have something on my butt? (check butt, try to be uber-discrete). Once I have determined that I don't have anything stuck on me, I still am left with the same question I started out with, "why are you staring at me"?
I have come up with a couple of possible solutions:
1) They think that I am Vietnamese and wonder why I am with a white man.
2) They are trying to figure out where I am from.
3) They think that I am a Vietnamese woman and I married an expat.
4) They think I am a prostitute.
The stares eventually made me feel a little paranoid, "Do they think I'm a whore?" and then made me want to prove my non-whoreness by speaking English very, very loudly. Did that just make them think that I was a multilingual whore? I dunno.
Some seemed curious, and others seemed, well, accusatory. Of what? I don't know.
So, what one of the above do you think was the reason for the staring? Cast your votes now, or write in your idea!
Thursday, February 15, 2007
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My answer is the same as Sharon's. They are stunned by your beauty.
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